Teach Portion Control

Portion control: because apparently, my child’s stomach is the size of a golf ball, not a bottomless pit like I thought. If you’ve ever watched your kid eat three noodles and declare ‘I’m full!’—while you wonder if you’re raising a future food critic—this one’s for you. Let’s get real about serving sizes and maybe, just maybe, avoid the daily food-waste guilt spiral (and the ‘just one more bite’ negotiations).

Teaching kids about portion sizes helps them tune into their own hunger and fullness cues, which sets them up for a healthy relationship with food and can help prevent overeating later in life. For parents, it’s a sanity-saver: less food waste, fewer power struggles, and more confidence that your kid isn’t secretly training for a competitive eating contest. Plus, research shows kids who learn portion awareness early are less likely to develop picky eating or emotional eating habits.

How to do it

  • Check a quick chart for your child’s age to determine appropriate serving sizes. If you don’t have one handy, you can search online for "toddler serving size" for a fast reference.

  • Serve small portions. A good rule of thumb is to offer about one tablespoon of each food per year of your child’s age.

  • Let your child ask for more if they’re still hungry. Avoid using guilt trips or bribes to encourage eating—trust their hunger cues.

  • Make portioning fun by turning it into a game. Use tiny bowls, colorful plates, or even an ice cube tray to serve food in playful ways.

  • Model healthy habits by serving yourself reasonable portions, too. This sets a good example, even if you might want to indulge after bedtime.

Tips:

  • Kids’ appetites can vary from day to day—don’t stress if they eat less sometimes.
  • Keeping mealtimes low-pressure helps children develop a healthy relationship with food.
  • Remember, it’s normal for young children to need multiple exposures to new foods before they accept them.

When you’re plating your child’s meal (right after cooking or reheating).

Glance at the chart and serve one spoonful less than you normally would.
Give yourself a silent high-five or a dramatic chef’s bow to your imaginary audience.
Print out or save a simple portion size chart for your child’s age and stick it on the fridge.

When you open the cabinet to grab a plate for your child.

Choose the smallest dish and fill it halfway.
Whisper, ‘portion pro’ to yourself or do a tiny fist pump.
Buy a set of small, colorful kid bowls or plates.

When you sit down together at the table.

Say the phrase out loud as you serve the food.
Smile at your child and share a quick giggle.
Teach your child a silly phrase like ‘tiny tummies, tiny bites’ to say at meals.