Educate Yourself About Fatherhood and Child Development to Build Confidence
Ever felt like you missed the secret dad orientation where everyone else got the manual? Welcome to the club where Googling 'is it normal if baby only eats beige foods' at 2AM is a rite of passage. This one’s for the dads who want to level up from 'winging it' to 'I sort of know what I’m doing (most days)'. If you want to swap confusion for confidence—even if you still call the pediatrician 'just to be sure'—read on.
When you educate yourself, your brain actually chills out a bit—fewer 'what if I break the baby?' spirals at 3AM. Feeling prepared boosts your confidence, which your kid totally picks up on (even if they’re too busy eating lint off the floor to say so). Understanding child development also helps you respond to their needs instead of just reacting, which is like giving your relationship with your kid a turbo boost. Bonus: your partner might high-five you for knowing what 'object permanence' means.
How to do it
Start small by picking one topic you’re curious (or even anxious) about—whether it’s sleep, feeding, tantrums, or anything else.
Find a reliable source to learn from. This could be:
- A well-reviewed book
- A trustworthy podcast
- A dad blog that doesn’t make you feel like a failure
Set a timer—realistically, you probably have about 12 minutes before someone needs your attention.
Jot down one thing you learned from your research and give it a try.
Repeat this process as needed. Remember:
- You don’t need a PhD in child psychology
- Just gather enough know-how to “fake it till you make it”