Provide Opportunities for Them to Interact with People from Diverse Backgrounds

Ever had that moment where your kid points at someone in the grocery store and loudly asks, 'Why is their hair blue?' Welcome to the club! If you’re looking to raise a tiny human who doesn’t think the world is just your living room and Grandma’s house, this one’s for you. Let’s help our kids realize that 'different' isn’t code for 'weird'—it’s just another flavor of awesome (and maybe get fewer public-staring incidents in the process).

Exposing kids to diverse people supercharges their empathy circuits, making their brains more flexible and curious. It builds social skills, reduces bias, and helps them see differences as interesting instead of intimidating. For parents, it’s a chance to learn (and maybe unlearn) a thing or two, too—hello, neural plasticity!

How to do it

  1. Start small by visiting a new playground or attending a library storytime in a different neighborhood. This helps introduce your child to new environments and people in a comfortable way.

  2. Read books and watch shows that feature people from all walks of life. Try using silly accents to make the experience more engaging and fun.

  3. Accept playdate invitations from families you don’t know, even if you feel nervous about being judged (especially about your snack choices). This is a great way to expand your social circle and expose your child to different backgrounds.

  4. When your child notices differences in others, talk openly about them. Avoid shushing; instead, provide honest and simple answers to encourage understanding and empathy.

  5. Celebrate holidays or festivals from other cultures. Even if your main motivation is enjoying the snacks, participating in these events can be a fun and educational experience for your family.

Key Tips:

  • Take gradual steps—small changes can have a big impact.
  • Use books and media as conversation starters about diversity.
  • Be open to new social opportunities, even if they feel outside your comfort zone.
  • Foster honest discussions about differences without embarrassment.
  • Embrace cultural celebrations as a way to learn and have fun together.

When you sit down for bedtime stories.

Pick one book that shows a family or child different from your own and read just one page.
Do your best silly accent or high-five your kid for being a world explorer.
Put a few diverse children’s books in your bedtime reading basket.

When you check your phone after breakfast.

Scroll through and RSVP ‘interested’ to one upcoming event or playdate.
Give yourself a mental gold star for being a slightly braver parent today.
Join a local parenting group or Facebook group with families from different backgrounds.

When planning your weekend activities.

Mention to your partner or kid, ‘Hey, there’s a festival this weekend—should we check it out?’
Imagine yourself eating something you can’t pronounce and smile (bonus if you actually go).
Bookmark a list of cultural festivals in your city.